Jo mujhe milee abhi hai nahin
Par jiske pyaar mein ho yakeen
Woh Ladkee hai kahaaaaaan... ?

She should have :
The proverbial Alabaster skin, va-va-voom curves and colored doe-like eyes. Phew !!!
Well, knowing that I am not Adonis myself (I am an average looking medium complexioned 5'8". In fact my Class Eight teacher used to say that I look like a gnome, but things have changed since then...) but ya coming back to the point, I guess I have to make relaxations here.

So a decent Iyer girl who can vibe with me on the same wavelength, reasonably good looking, well educated, who is modern in thoughts- yet has respect for traditions, very open minded, fun-loving, understanding and caring and has a zanny sense of humor is the one I am seriously aspiring for....  She should have a slight mischievous streak in her personality to make an otherwise drab life, a good deal spicier with the flavors of fun, love and togetherness.

I do not believe in the concept of me earning a living for my wife, and her cooking for me . (Rather wud like to have it the other way around, but knowing my capability at the kitchen I know that I am unable to negotiate for such a favourable arrangement ;-) So the best way out seems to be to dwell on what I'd call a symbiotic relation where she helps a bit with the family finances and I help with the kitchen and cleaning up, so to say - a relation characterised by love, mutual respect, trust and interdependence. Wow !! I sound great don't I ?